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​Moving On & My Closure. [Twin Souls Part 1.2]

I just connected with Gerry, the eldest brother of Brenda José, my late wife who died 3 months ago on 23 December, 2013. He emailed me these two pics of Brenda’s grave and the view it overlooks.

He visited her grave twice in March 2014, while in Hong Kong. He put flowers on her grave and talked to her.
I thank Brenda’s father for letting her rest in peace at Chaiwan Catholic Cemetery, Hong Kong.
And organizing her funeral in Hong Kong.
Gerry told me that her father got the maid to throw away everything she had in her room in Hong Kong.
Thrown away were my gifts to her – a priceless engagement ring, a wedding band, a Cartier watch, a vintage Rolex, an Ipad (this she bought herself), a HP 15 inch laptop, and a stock collection of high end museum-grade rings/pieces to beautiful contemporary jewelry which I invested for her to start an eBay business (she didn’t do much with it, she was her own buyer and user, and she gave away pieces and sets as gifts).
I have many of the lower end jewellery which she left with me, and have given away to my staff and friends.
Brenda’s 1.17 carat heart-shaped diamond engagement ring incredibly had BOTH her birth and soul numbers 7 and 11, and my soul number 1. I bought it on 22 February 1996 the next day after I proposed to her in a personal growth workshop. The workshop organizer’s daughter knew the owner of a high end jewelry shop in Grand Hyatt Hong Kong in Wanchai North. I said the shop was too high end for me.
Nevertheless, the owner showed us a heart-shaped diamond which she couldn’t sell for a long time. Although the inclusion was not noticeable its clarity was not high or flawless, so the value was much lower. The owner was willing to sell it at near cost. Brenda and I felt in love with it. I couldn’t afford it, but heck I wanted Brenda to have it.

We were previously window shopping for heart-shaped diamonds for a few months, looking at the 0.5 carat range. We meditated to attract for a good and affordable diamond. And according to the Law of Attraction, this 1.17 diamond from no way attracted us and it was meant to be. Luckily the carat was not 7.11 or 11.7 carat! We kind of took it for granted, but looking back what are the odds of attracting a diamond that is cut to a perfect 1.17 carat – with both our soul numbers…
Sigh… oh GOD. It was not the momentary value, but the priceless sentimental val
​ue I was hoping to get back.

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